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Q: My thinking is that if someone’s on holiday when they have their birthday, you should still buy them a present to give to them on their return. For two years in a row now, relatives have missed my daughter’s birthday because she’s been away. Am I right to feel aggrieved by this loss of the art of gift-giving? H.M., Wheeler Heights, NSW

A: If there’s an actual “art of  gift-giving”, you sound as if  you’d be Michelangelo, meticulously painting the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel, while I’d be a snotty toddler in a…

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